When would you realize that you're falling inlove ?
When you are not afraid to share everything about you with him… your feelings, secrets, your thoughts , likes, dislikes, failures, expectations, dreams , plans and some things you haven’t told to anyone yet even with your best friend. When you see yourself in him, astound to know that you have so many things in common , when he talks just like you do … as if you were talking to your own self. When everything feels so natural. And you’ll find yourself checking your phone constantly.. waiting for his name to pop though you’re trying so hard not to. Your day wouldn’t be complete without receiving even a single message from him. It’s crazy.. yes . It will drive you crazy at first especially when you realize that this someone is the one that making your head spin. You’ll begin to believe that the person you are talking with is amazing and wonder why on earth you happened not to born in his place… you’ll begin to ask “what if…” questions or start your sentences with the phrase “how I wish…”. Then you will dream to meet him one day.. You will start to see your future together. Talk a lot of cheesy stuffs. Share a lots of craziness. Express yourself with no boundaries.
You will love him even though you haven’t yet met him. You will love him deeply even if people tell you that you’re just in love with the “idea” of him, telling you negative stuffs. Making you realize that the thing between the two of you is not real… that it could never be love.. that you’re just dreaming … that you could only be together in the world of make-believe. They will keep on telling you to wake up…. Yet you will keep on loving him.
Is it possible to fall for someone you’ve never met?
Definitely yes ! For love comes in many different ways, different circumstances. It will just suddenly strike you out of nowhere.. Whoever, whatever and where ever you are. You just have to be brave enough to face all the unexpected things that might happen.
If you’re ready to meet that person.. Accept every little thing about him.. If you are not expecting too much.. If you know in yourself that you’re really in love and not just in love with the “idea” of an ideal person that everyone else is looking for.. If you’re sure enough that your feelings will not change once you meet him.
People still have the belief that the internet is this cold anonymous place but we are in touch with social and mass media just as often, if not more-so, than outside of it depending on the age group. The only way for you to not develop some sort of bond or pseudo relationship with somebody or some community online is to completely avoid engaging in it. Facebook, skype, messaging apps, instagram, twitter. We see the personal spaces and thoughts of people that would otherwise take months or years to discover "organically".
You can't put a universal definition on love. To each their own. For some, the physical aspect matters more to fall in love. For others, it's a deeper connection. For some having the same interests is more important and for others it's shared values.The ingredients needed for you to fall in love are completely different than any other person in the world. Now, that's for the falling in love part. Having a successful, fulfilling committed and longterm relationship is a different ballgame altogether.
It's really scary when you get attached to someone.You spend time with them, you get to know them. You find yourself knowing their favorite color, food, movie, song. You discover their flaws and their talents. And as time goes on, you learn more and more, absorbing every second of detail without even realizing it. Then one day, you wake up and realize how much this person actually means to you, and you love them for every strength and weakness. They make you feel warm and secure, but most of all, they bring you happiness. And to bring happiness to someone in such a way is a strong and powerful thing. It could break a person completely. Some say those who fall in love are young and dumb. I say they show an incredible amount of bravery. It takes courage to trust somebody with your entire heart.
Your feelings belong to you alone. I believe in many forms of love and that you can feel very deep love for someone without having met them. However, you ARE missing a very big piece of who he/she is, and by falling in love with someone online, you are at risk that their physical presence and chemistry are very different than what you expect.
