When did standards get low and relationships become something people are afraid of and don’t want? The excuses of not being ready, yet they are willing to “date” you and do all the things associated with a relationship, yet they are not ready. When did standards and morals slip?
There’s too much choice widely available now with the introduction of dating apps and social media platforms. What’s going on? You like a guy or a girl, but want to keep them in the background and keep the sweet just in case there’s someone else out there you might find on Tinder 😂😂😂. Drop me out.
What happens to the good old days, when a guy sees a girl he likes or vice versa, they date a few times, they like each other and they move forward organically into a relationship? Now there seems to be all these pre steps and criteria and that's just for the dating stage alone. It’s ridiculous. So ridiculous I’m actually chuckling to myself right now. Bring back the old days.
If you’re a man or a woman and you have a daughter or son would you be happy and blessed to see your daughter is with a guy just like you, or would you be happy if your son doesn’t know how to treat a woman because all he’s seen is daddy mistreat women, or he has a different woman every 6 months. Or as a mother would you be happy to see your daughter struggle to find a meaningful relationship because all she’s seen is mummy putting up with being treated badly, or never truly happy, or again seems to be dating a different guy every few months. We must do better.
I saw a tweet earlier in the week and I love it. People have this list or requirements that they want their partner to have, nice body, curvy, nice hair, 6 pack, tattoos, beard, wears a suit to work, good job etc, yet that person with their long list of requirements barely has a full time job of their own or their own home. Hence why I loved the tweet. “Meet the requirements of your requirements”. If you want someone make sure you can match their qualities and achievements also.
Why does everything else have a reset button except the world. The world needs resetting on people’s behaviours and thought processes’. It’s not a problem meeting men, the problem is meeting one who’s mindset isn’t so childlike. These metro sexual guys are out of control. Men are becoming emasculated by the day, gender roles are becoming blurred, and men are doing it to themselves to be honest.
If you’re lucky enough to have an amazing partner, work hard at keeping your relationship or marriage happy, trusting, loving and most of all fun. Don’t leave one person to do all the work in your relationship, you have an argument, sort it out, you love them, tell them. You value them, show them. It’s really that simple.
Good for me, I find the ONE.
& I love him so much, no doubt.
